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		<title>Size Does Not Matter Make</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 06:42:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melissa Ballate</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[They say great things come in small packages. You shall be led to believe otherwise. In business, big is better. Don&#8217;t have at least $10 million in revenue? Then why are we talking? Today, I&#8217;d like to introduce the concept of a good business &#8211; small business &#8211; and that despite what every chamber of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They say great things come in small packages. You shall be led to believe otherwise. In business, big is better. Don&#8217;t have at least $10 million in revenue?  <em>Then why are we talking? </em>Today, I&#8217;d like to introduce the concept of a good business &#8211; small business &#8211; and that despite what every chamber of commerce, financial institution, and advertisement will tell you &#8211; size does not matter.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s begin with a basic question &#8211; why do we want to be big?  Here are a few plausible responses to that:</p>
<p>1) I want to make a lot of money.<br />
2) I want to employ many people.<br />
3) I want to serve as many people as possible with my product.</p>
<p>Number one is the most popular because this society is hinged on the premise that the more you have the better you are (and the happier you&#8217;ll be).  Your stockbroker-turned-baker friend will tell you &#8211; money doesn&#8217;t make you better or happier. More importantly in business, it certainly doesn&#8217;t make for happier customers. When money starts to matter more to a company than the quality and caliber of its product or service, its customers are exponentially more susceptible to competitors. Good products breed loyalty and loyalty means repeat business.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s take answer number two.  I want to be big so I can employ a lot of people.  Why?  If its a matter of power you have other problems.  But if its a matter of responsibility or wanting to help people, then remember that happy employees are better societal contributions than people with jobs.  A company being big and hiring many people means nothing if the employees are unhappy.  Large companies are the poster child for this atypical largely depressed American workforce.  It&#8217;s <a href="http://about.zappos.com/our-unique-culture/zappos-core-values" title="Zappos.com Corporate Culture">not that all large companies are bad companie</a>s, it&#8217;s simply that large companies are generally less able to scale an environment where everyone is doing what they love and feels valued and rewarded for it.  Don&#8217;t focus on hiring more people, focus on growing a passionate team. <em>That</em> will take a lot more time than Groupon and Wal-mart may lead you to believe.</p>
<p>And finally, the most noble &#8211; to serve as many people as possible with your product.  Why is that important?  For a non-profit that&#8217;s easy &#8211; to help as many people as possible! (Mental note:  There should be a lot more very large non-profits.)  But if you&#8217;re a business what is the value of serving as many people as possible? A good answer is that you believe that your product makes people&#8217;s lives better in which case you really want as many customers as possible.  (Apple and Steve Jobs are a reliable example.) But if that isn&#8217;t your response, which in most cases it isn&#8217;t, then consider that the more people you try to make happy the less people you will.  Democratizing your product for the sake of quantity, makes you less able to serve your real customers.  Take <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jean_Paul_Gaultier" title="Jean Paul Gaultier">Jean Paul Gaultier</a>.  His fashion is weird and controversial, but its this exactly that his loyal customers love and what&#8217;s gained him global  brand notoriety.  Conversely, trying to please everyone is the reason (I believe) most American cuisine stinks.  Pleasing the palettes of immigrants from dozens of countries across the world is no easy to task.  Lesson?  Create a brand based on who you really are as a company; customers that share your values will buy.</p>
<p>A good product, a good team and finally a strong brand are what make a good business &#8211; not size. Happy customers and profitability (not revenue!) are the result.  I am not saying that growth is bad, growth is good (I wrote a lot about it last year.)  But what is bad is growth for growth&#8217;s sake. Its the root problem behind America&#8217;s financial collapse and the fact that <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Happy_Planet_Index" title="Happy Planet Index">this country rates 150 out of 178 on the World Happiness Index</a> (two slots above Rwanda).  Focus on being the best possible business, not the largest, and chances are growth will come naturally.</p>
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		<title>So&#8230; what&#8217;s new?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 23:45:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nathan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I wrap up my first month as Creative Lead at Blue Daring, it seems natural to write my first post here about newness. I&#8217;ve been personally experiencing quite a lot of it lately, as anyone does when starting out a new job. Absorbing a different set of clients, negotiating unfamiliar procedures, getting set up in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As I wrap up my first month as Creative Lead at Blue Daring, it seems natural to write my first post here about <em>newness</em>. I&#8217;ve been personally experiencing quite a lot of it lately, as anyone does when starting out a new job. Absorbing a different set of clients, negotiating unfamiliar procedures, getting set up in new routines and physical spaces—<em>where in the world are the folders kept?</em>&#8230; Yet despite all the unknowns and pervasive questions it&#8217;s also felt oddly familiar. Why?</p>
<p>Perhaps I&#8217;m well practiced. Not at taking up new jobs, but at taking on newness. Part of the design process is embracing the unknown, accepting that we don&#8217;t know everything, and being comfortable at diving in to figure things out. I don&#8217;t really know much about far-flung topics like firefighting equipment, Cuban culture, or workforce education, but these are the worlds of our clients that I need to represent. And since part of my role as a designer and communicator is relating what&#8217;s really important about those things to other people, I get right to work at understanding all of that &#8220;newness.&#8221; In fact, it&#8217;s one of my favorite parts of the job.</p>
<p>Being new at things is something most of us shy away from:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>What&#8217;s familiar is comfortable</strong>, and we tend to embrace, identify with, or even cling to those things we know we&#8217;re good at.</li>
<li><strong>We avoid practices that take time and effort</strong>—hey, I&#8217;m busy here!</li>
<li><strong>We learn that failing is bad</strong>, and overcoming newness implies an awful lot of stumbles along the way.</li>
<li><strong>We love to feel smart</strong>, and confronting newness&#8217;s lesson that &#8220;maybe we don&#8217;t know, maybe we&#8217;re even <em>incompetent!</em>&#8220;—is scary and to be avoided.</li>
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<p>But getting comfortable doing the same thing all the time is no strategy for business growth and especially not in the (pardon the cliché) current economic climate. Eventually, it will be time to try something new, like it or not. So, embrace it! And find partners who are adept at <a title="Ideas and Products" href="http://www.bluedaring.com/strategy/ideas-and-products/">new ideas</a> and can not only make newness profitable but occasionally, well, <em>fun</em>.</p>
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		<title>The Company of Character</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Nov 2011 05:20:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melissa Ballate</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[From the rude genius with the brilliant but spiritless start up, to the passionate engineer with a soulful development company &#8211; businesses are defined by the characters of their leaders. The most successful businessmen I know have built their business because of their character. Being themselves, taking ownership of who they are, has enabled them [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From the rude genius with the brilliant but spiritless start up, to the passionate engineer with a soulful development company &#8211; businesses are defined by the characters of their leaders. The most successful businessmen I know have built their business because of their character.  Being themselves, taking ownership of who they are, has enabled them to shine and often, but not always, profit.  </p>
<p>Conversely, a business&#8217;s weakness is that of its leader.  If you run an organization, ask yourself what you&#8217;re bad at.  Are you a bad marketer?  Perhaps you don&#8217;t know finance very well?  Chances are your company <a href="http://www.bluedaring.com/communications/branding-and-print/" title="Branding is Critical">lacks brand awareness</a> and is in dire need of a good CFO.  This is why when you are trying to improve your organization, begin by improving yourself.</p>
<p>I always say that you can&#8217;t be a good woman, a good father, a good boss, or a good son without being first good with yourself.  Your ability to give to others is hinged on whether you have something to give.  That is why you must cultivate and develop your strengths, passions and interests in order to be able to truly give to others.</p>
<p>For a company, the answer is easy.  Surround yourself with partners who have the qualities and experience that you lack.  A <a href="http://www.mydignitas.com/NicholasDelgado.html" title="Nick Delgado, Dignitas">great wealth advisor</a> or <a href="http://www.bluedaring.com" title="Blue Daring | Strategy and Communication">a trusted strategist</a>, can help your business best capitalize on its strengths.  Worst case scenario you&#8217;re a better company for the experience.  Best case scenario you grow your business in a way you never knew possible.</p>
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		<title>What Daley Teaches Us About Leadership</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Feb 2011 02:44:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melissa Ballate</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last night, at the Economic Club of Chicago’s 333rd Dinner Meeting, I was lucky enough to hear our dearest Mayor, Richard M. Daley, give one of his final speeches as Mayor. In his hallmark frankness and simple tone, he spoke about the progress Chicago has made over the last 20 years and what the future [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last night, at the Economic Club of Chicago’s 333rd Dinner Meeting, I was lucky enough to hear our dearest Mayor, Richard M. Daley, give one of his final speeches as Mayor.  In his hallmark frankness and simple tone, he spoke about the progress Chicago has made over the last 20 years and what the future has in store.   This was punctuated by a candid, and at times, tongue-in-cheek Q&#038;A session where among other things, the Mayor warned that he’ll be driving a car now for the 1st time in 20 years.  </p>
<p>The Mayor has done a lot for Chicago, but one thing in particular resonated strongly.  He dedicated himself <em>to create an environment where people and business can flourish</em>.  What that means is that it is not any one person’s responsibility, much less the government’s, to create prosperity, new jobs, and a great society.  It means that when the fundamental ingredients are in place, in a city’s case – good education, business-friendly policies, safety and beauty, the city, its people, businesses, and communities will flourish on their own.</p>
<p>Now I love this philosophy for two reasons.  <em>Reason number #1</em> – it’s a fundamental principle of life.  Case in point, human beings have evolved and prospered on this planet because over the course of billions of years, the chemical and physical environment on Earth has been one that has facilitated and allowed our existence and subsequent evolution.  On a smaller scale, the same is the case with mold.  When it appears on your bread, it’s because there exists a perfect confluence of factors for it to grow.  <em>Reason number #2</em> – it doesn’t rob the individual of self-responsibility.  When you consider that the role of organizations is only to create an environment for good things to happen, it doesn’t mean that a person in that environment still doesn’t have to actually do things!  On the contrary it provides the perfect stage for said individual to shine [and an inexcusable one for them to fail, or worse, complain].</p>
<p>So now, let me bring it down to business and strategy – my passion and <a href="http://www.bluedaring.com/">our business</a>.  As an executive or leader this makes your job much clearer.  It should not be your work to direct your employees to save the company money.  Your hours should not be consumed with drawn out phone calls and conversations convincing prospects and contacts on why you can work with them.  You should not stay up all night thinking about how you’ll achieve next quarter’s goals.  </p>
<p>What you need to do is simple – <em>create the foundation for your organization to thrive</em>.  Create a culture that empowers and rewards your employees to be conscious contributors to the <a href="http://www.bluedaring.com/strategy/strategic-planning/">organization’s financial and strategic goals</a>.  Create a <a href="http://www.bluedaring.com/communications/branding-and-print/">brand and message</a> that attracts the customers and partners you want to work with.  Implement and follow a strategic plan that maps out your efforts for the year leaving you to focus on new relationships and <a href="http://www.bluedaring.com/strategy/ideas-and-products/">powerful new ideas</a>.  </p>
<p>Leaders are people and people are flawed.  The greatest leader Chicago has ever had is a great example.  He however overcame himself to enable Chicago to become a global city; one with a reputation for good business, strong communities and getting things done.  As a leader you have the power to do the same.  By putting the right practices and tools in place you will create a fertile environment and your organization, like Chicago, will become much greater than the sum of the people, philosophy and services that comprise it.  </p>
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		<title>A Dose of Perspective</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 15:27:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melissa Ballate</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Because everyone could use a dose of perspective&#8230; A reflection by Carl Sagan: From this distant vantage point, the Earth might not seem of particular interest. But for us, it&#8217;s different. Consider again that dot. That&#8217;s here, that&#8217;s home, that&#8217;s us. On it everyone you love, everyone you know, everyone you ever heard of, every [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Because everyone could use a dose of perspective&#8230;</p>
<div id="attachment_1214" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 463px"><img src="http://www.bluedaring.com/BlueDaring/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Pale_Blue_Dot.png" alt="This narrow-angle color image of the Earth, dubbed ‘Pale Blue Dot’, is a part of the first ever ‘portrait’ of the solar system taken by Voyager." title="A Pale Blue Dot" width="453" height="614" class="size-full wp-image-1214" /><p class="wp-caption-text">This narrow-angle color image of the Earth, dubbed ‘Pale Blue Dot’, is a part of the first ever ‘portrait’ of the solar system taken by Voyager.</p></div>
<p>A reflection by Carl Sagan:</p>
<p><em>From this distant vantage point, the Earth might not seem of particular interest. But for us, it&#8217;s different. Consider again that dot. That&#8217;s here, that&#8217;s home, that&#8217;s us. On it everyone you love, everyone you know, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever was, lived out their lives. The aggregate of our joy and suffering, thousands of confident religions, ideologies, and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilization, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every mother and father, hopeful child, inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every &#8220;superstar,&#8221; every &#8220;supreme leader,&#8221; every saint and sinner in the history of our species lived there – on a mote of dust suspended in a sunbeam. </p>
<p>The Earth is a very small stage in a vast cosmic arena. Think of the rivers of blood spilled by all those generals and emperors so that, in glory and triumph, they could become the momentary masters of a fraction of a dot. Think of the endless cruelties visited by the inhabitants of one corner of this pixel on the scarcely distinguishable inhabitants of some other corner, how frequent their misunderstandings, how eager they are to kill one another, how fervent their hatreds.</p>
<p>Our posturings, our imagined self-importance, the delusion that we have some privileged position in the Universe, are challenged by this point of pale light. Our planet is a lonely speck in the great enveloping cosmic dark. In our obscurity, in all this vastness, there is no hint that help will come from elsewhere to save us from ourselves.</p>
<p>The Earth is the only world known so far to harbor life. There is nowhere else, at least in the near future, to which our species could migrate. Visit, yes. Settle, not yet. Like it or not, for the moment the Earth is where we make our stand.</p>
<p>It has been said that astronomy is a humbling and character-building experience. There is perhaps no better demonstration of the folly of human conceits than this distant image of our tiny world. To me, it underscores our responsibility to deal more kindly with one another, and to preserve and cherish the pale blue dot, the only home we&#8217;ve ever known.</em></p>
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		<title>Leadership by the Sexes</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 11:32:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melissa Ballate</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[While in Barcelona last month, my husband Sasha and I got into a deep conversation on leadership. (While enjoying some jamon of course.) I don&#8217;t know how it came about, but after mentioning some of the greatest leaders of all times &#8211; from the Spartan leader Leonidas to the famed spiritual leader Mahatma Gandhi to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While in Barcelona last month, my husband <a href="http://www.pathf.com/blogs/author/sasha-dzeletovic/">Sasha</a> and I got into a deep conversation on leadership.  (While enjoying some <em>jamon</em> of course.)  I don&#8217;t know how it came about, but after mentioning some of the greatest leaders of all times &#8211; from the Spartan leader Leonidas to the famed spiritual leader Mahatma Gandhi to people we knew personally &#8211; we explored what was it that made a great leader.</p>
<p>We came to the conclusion that a great leader, is many things, but one very important one is a disseminator.  A great leader is someone who spreads their ideas and vision to other people.  Either through publications, speaking, coaching, mentoring, a leader is apt at &#8220;planting seeds&#8221; in as many places as possible not only to give greater life to his ideals, but also to help others grow with them.</p>
<p>Wait a minute, I thought!  That sounds strangely like men&#8217;s biological function.  As participants of life, men are programmed to spread their seeds as much as possible.  From the sheer amount of sperm they&#8217;re able to produce, to the oft quoted idea that men are meant to be with many women, men are trained by nature to spread and create as many of themselves as they can.  It&#8217;s part of the formula that allowed the human race to succeed.</p>
<p>It hit me that that is exactly why men have traditionally been &#8220;the leaders&#8221; in our society.  It&#8217;s never been about men being better than women, its simply that their biological preparation has trained them to do what leadership has traditionally demanded.  Replicate as much as possible!</p>
<p>Today however, we are in a world where the greatest imperial powers have crumbled.  The largest companies that we have built have collapsed and to top it off, the economy has forced the greatest builder of the biggest stuff on earth, Dubai, to stop building.  What does that tell us?  Spreading your seed is not enough.  It is good to expand, but what&#8217;s the point of doing so if everything you plant goes bust?  What&#8217;s the point of having thousands of employees if you can&#8217;t properly nurture them?  What&#8217;s the point of invading other countries, if you can&#8217;t handle them?  What&#8217;s the point of having tons of children if you can&#8217;t love them all?</p>
<p>Women however are the nurturers.  They are predisposed to take nascent beings, ideas and concepts and patiently nurture them to bring life.  They are also more emotional thinkers, a value that has long been missing from strategic decision making.  Women are also less impulsive.  They are adept at thinking through a decision without diving in head first.  Case in point, women investors perform much better than men.  They lose a lot less money in tough times and earn more in the long haul.</p>
<p>The point is this.  Today is the day for female leadership.  Not because I&#8217;m a feminist (because anyone who knows me knows that that is the furthest thing from the truth), but because our economy and our society are in need of nurture and cultivation.  This also doesn&#8217;t mean women leaders.  What it means is thinking critically, investing in projects and seeing them all the way through, not just growing for growing sake.  Employees are more dissatisfied than ever in big companies, people are tired of the demands and consequences of the bigger, faster lifestyle, our children need our attention.  It&#8217;s time we invest in that that we&#8217;ve built and begun before going on to the next big thing.  This will not only give us purpose, but further create sustainable ideas and businesses that are fundamental to growing and giving new life.</p>
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		<title>Creative Exercises</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Dec 2009 07:06:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Amber Zumstein</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Creativity is a lot like the human body; it requires exercise and a healthy diet to stay in shape. Doing the same type of creative work all the time is like doing the same exercise every day. You need to mix it up to get results. Cross training the right side of the brain is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Creativity is a lot like the human body; it requires exercise and a healthy diet to stay in shape. Doing the same type of creative work all the time is like doing the same exercise every day.  You need to mix it up to get results. Cross training the right side of the brain is a requirement in the quest for creative zen.  Inspiration comes in many forms, and as a designer, experiencing art and culture is invaluable. Pursuing diverse interests and broadening your horizons will stretch and feed your creative muscles.</p>
<p>Creativity is all about re-arranging, re-inventing and re-thinking.  Changing your perspective or seeing something new can help revitalize you and help you to work it out.  At my fingertips, I have a fabulous city that is filled with films, bookstores, theaters, museums and music. I flex my design muscles by reading design blogs and magazines, following designers on twitter, and continually looking at sites to see what others are up to and talking about. There are also design groups and events to go to. Meeting and getting to know other designers is beneficial for many reasons, if not only to share nerdy design references. </p>
<p>I count myself lucky to be a creative professional. I love nothing more then having a great brainstorm session or coming up with a solid design solution. You get a runners high off of it, the creative endorphins kick in and you marvel at how fortunate you are to design for a living.</p>
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		<title>Dear Recession, Thank You</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 05:28:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melissa Ballate</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Italicized items can be filled in by you the reader Dear Recession, The two years that you have been in my life have been the most unstable and yet transformative that our business/organization/department has ever seen (our balance sheet was particularly shocked by your arrival). When I first heard of you in 2007, I figured [...]]]></description>
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<p>Dear Recession,</p>
<p>The two years that you have been in my life have been the most unstable and yet transformative that our <em>business/organization/department</em> has ever seen (our balance sheet was particularly shocked by your arrival).  </p>
<p>When I first heard of you in 2007, I figured that after years of banks and mortgage brokers gorging themselves on unqualified homebuyers, you were just paying them a visit to make amends.  Next, when I heard the talking heads on television warning me to stop shopping, I thought it was a scare tactic.  It took the near collapse of the auto industry to convince me I was mistaken.  I quickly realized you were not particularly selective and further how much the world economy was interdependent.</p>
<p>As soon as 2008, my <em>funding/customers/clients</em> began to fall away.  When a <em>grant that was cut off/account who couldn’t afford us anymore/partner going out of business</em>, we  began to feel your wrath.  First we had to make amends by cutting expenses, pretty soon we were cutting jobs.  The swiftness of it all caught me so off guard that I think I failed to lead where I should have, bringing my <em>business/organization/department</em> further into the hole.  </p>
<p>With cash flow at a minimum and a dozen or so of my staff members gone, you got me thinking.  I mean really reflecting.  I started to ask myself questions I hadn&#8217;t thought about since I took the helm of this operation.  What is it that we do best?  What value do we provide our customers and <em>distributors/partners</em>?  Why do we do business?  How are we going to <em>sell/operate</em>?</p>
<p>This thinking quickly propelled me into a week-long period of sleepless nights, research and maddening note taking&#8230; It took my <em>husband/wife/partner</em> pointing out to me that I hadn&#8217;t been this excited in years.  That&#8217;s when it hit me&#8230;I was actually planning for the future!  I had been so taken up in my success over the last 10+ years that I forgot to do what got our <em>business/organization/department</em> here to begin with&#8230; plan for the future!</p>
<p>There is a Spanish song called “Me Asustas, Pero Me Gustas.”  (This translates to “You Scare Me, But I Like You.”)  I never thought I’d say this about such a difficult time for our <em>business/organization/department</em>, but this has been a hidden blessing.  I have realized that no matter how successful I become, I less not forget the importance of setting goals, adapting to change and strategizing for our future.  </p>
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		<title>It&#8217;s All in Your Head</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 23:23:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melissa Ballate</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The brain&#8217;s 100 trillion synapses have been mapped by a group of scientists in Lausanne, Switzerland. The result? Physically and structurally, a picture of the brain looks exactly like most human systems (think the interconnectedness of relationships, an aerial view of a city, a computer network). What that means is that what we see everyday, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/henry_markram_supercomputing_the_brain_s_secrets.html">The brain&#8217;s 100 trillion synapses have been mapped by a group of scientists in Lausanne, Switzerland</a>.  The result?  Physically and structurally, a picture of the brain looks exactly like most human systems (think the interconnectedness of relationships, an aerial view of a city, a computer network).  What that means is that what we see everyday, what we&#8217;ve built as a human race, is a projection of the brain.  This is not only a survival mechanism, but undoubtedly makes the brain the most successful organ in evolution.  </p>
<p>Communications works much like the brain.  With it, we recreate a person&#8217;s (or a group of people&#8217;s) projection of reality in words, images, and scenarios.  Its when people see themselves in something, that they create the emotional connections that drive action.  (It&#8217;s what we here lovingly call <em><a href="http://www.bluedaring.com/about-blue-daring/information-consumption/">information consumption</a></em>.)</p>
<p>What we know today about the brain, only proves that everything in life is a matter of perception.  If we perceive a problem; we act like there is one.  If we perceive love; we respond to it.  If we perceive happiness; we become it.  The quicker human beings recognize this as reality, the sooner they can begin to make the most of it.</p>
<p>Until then, we communicators will just have to make the best of the situation&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Manage My Expectations</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 15:04:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The most widely known iterative methodology in software development is the Rational Unified Process (RUP). It’s a framework for managing projects in a way that kind of resembles real life. Meaning that the first time you do something you do the best you can with the information in front of you. Then, you try harder [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The most widely known iterative methodology in software development is the Rational Unified Process (RUP).  It’s a framework for managing projects in a way that kind of resembles real life.  Meaning that the first time you do something you do the best you can with the information in front of you.  Then, you try harder the next time given what you’ve learned.  One of 3 things will happen the next time around; (1) you’ve improved, (2) you’re about the same, or (3) you’ve gotten worse.  Here’s something surprising that may not sound intuitive; all three situations are a win.</p>
<p>That doesn’t sound right, does it?  How can I win, when I lost or stayed the same?  </p>
<p>The answer is that in all three situations you’ve measured your performance, which gives you a better chance to set proper expectations the next time around.  See, we’re not trying to be the best at predicting outcomes; we’re merely trying to do the best we can to beat unexpected obstacles and make progress.  Software development teams who don’t hit their deadlines have done nothing wrong.  In fact, they’ve done a more honest job than teams that claim to predict the future.  In the end they have software to show off; it’s just being built at a slower pace than some people may have anticipated.  </p>
<p>What we have here is a problem setting proper expectations, not a problem delivering software.  Ultimately building software is not a predictive endeavor, it’s an adaptive and creative one.  </p>
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